Success and Sense of humor

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• Sep 15, 2012
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America is the land of opportunities for people from various cultures. The universal key to success is our personality or attitude. An intelligent person with a charming personality is quite impressive. But, the easy way to attract people is our sense of humor.

1. Good sense of humor is when we joke to ourselves. This is used by professionals and all highly accomplished celebrities. The surroundings we grew up in, have a great influence. People laugh at different things based on their culture. Therefore, we need to be a little careful when we are interacting or communicating with different people. It's good to joke about ourselves because others are not a target of our jokes and people can laugh without being hurt.

Ex: I am a vegetarian and I teach undergrad Biology courses.
When my students ask me, if they can get partial credit for the 'not so correct answer' they wrote on the test. Guess what I answer. I say "I am a vegetarian. I do not munch on your points. 
Don't worry. You will get partial credit". All my students seem to have enjoyed this joke.
Ex: I always joke about, how I forget to see the pointer which is right in my hands.

Ex: Most of my jokes are on my Indian accent, such as I pronounce the words 'year' and 'ear' both as EAR, out of habit that doesn't go easily. Therefore, they have to pay attention in my class.
2. Bad sense of humor is
 quite risky because nobody likes being ridiculed. So, beware.
.when we joke on others,

.respond with a joke when others joke on themselves,
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joking about others culture.
3. Worst sense of humor is when people talk ill about others and make fun of them. No one enjoys this kind of joke except the one who cracked the joke. This is sadism or torture.

How to impress your life partner?

 

Published
• Sep 15, 2012
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For a couple or family, who live in America, social interaction is quite occasional.  Husbands mostly go to work. Therefore, they do not get as bored as women at home do. Non-working women or full-time moms get really lonely after a while. Trust me, life in America is not at all similar to back at home. In such times, husband and wife become sole entertainers for each other, while 'sharing life and crossing the hurdles of life.
Women are smart and sensitive. It is not hard for a husband to understand his wife, who puts an effort into the relationship. Being a woman I can understand a wife’s perspective better so I collected some tips to help my family, friends, and readers. I guess some of these can be used for husbands as well.  Take some of your precious time out for her and use these easy tips if you want to genuinely impress her:
1. People are attracted to confidence/success/positivity: Market yourself, if not your life partner who else would you impress, right? So, don’t be shy…..to boast about your skills and achievements either from childhood or your work. Remember, everybody likes to hear a story. Talk about great (Ex: math) skills you have and how you won people’s praise by ‘XYZ act’.
2. Teach her a skill she is longing to learn: Some women like to learn driving or things that their husband has expertise in. In America, driving a car is a billion-dollar skill for a full-time mom. Unless she knows driving, she feels disabled and depressed because she is dependent on every little thing from her husband. Teaching her to drive a car is definitely a 100% heart-winning gift that a husband can give to a wife.
3. Share stories that add to her knowledge: Women like to hear something new; things that they do not indulge in naturally. Tell her interesting stories about politics, sports, your work, etc. Absolutely avoid house politics or sensitive issues.
4. Cook FOR her: Women are vexed by cooking every day. It became such a ‘mandatory monotonous chore that it makes them feel as if they are in an inescapable trap’. Cook something that they might like from your kitchen. This shows that you truly understand that they need a break from their daily routine. Cook something that you can make easily without stressing out yourself, after all, you too are looking forward to spending a good time with her, and you do not want to dose off when its time ;)
5. Cook WITH her: This is a nice time to strengthen or revitalize the bond. Women always appreciate a helping hand.
6. Praise: Not their dress or looks, it is an old way to impress. Praise about the unique qualities they recently developed or how they still look so young. If your wife is a full-time mom then she needs more praise, in fact, excessive praise.
7. Ask her opinion about the issue you are facing at this point in time in life, ex: the generation gap, how to stop aging, articles you read this morning on how to grow muscles, etc.
This shows that you care for her perspective. People are different from each other because they have a different sets of knowledgeable points. Life is wonderful because of these differences; otherwise, it would have been boring. So, enjoy the differences you both have and learn and grow from each other. Husbands do not realize that their wife is the best counselor ever. They have the exact suggestion that you have been looking everywhere but forgot that it is right here.
8. Discover her interests: Remember, women have some interesting topics on which they have intense knowledge, and when someone initiates a conversation on that topic they jump up and participate with all enthusiasm. Use these hints to initiate a good conversation next time.
9.Make her laugh: For this ‘sense of humor is required. A secret tip for developing a sense of humor is- ‘always joke about yourself or inanimate objects only, never joke about the other person.’
These are some titbits from my treasure. Hope you enjoyed it.

Selfie habit- good or bad?

 Selfies are memories that you gather, a collection of your favorite self :))

My opinion is that one should gather as many memories as possible when the time is right.
But do not lose the moment. Enjoy your time when you are at a party or on vacation fully.
The key is to strike a balance. 

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• Jan 9, 2015
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4 lazy ways to lose fat

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• Feb 24, 2014
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Four lazy ways to lose weight:
1. Chew food more to make your brain conscious and that will make you consume less.
2. Reduce portions: Eat less, move more, and keep breathing. Your body fat is lost when we breathe out more carbon dioxide and excrete water from our bodies through sweat or urine. To breathe out more first you have to breathe in more, so keep breathing.
3. Forget crunches and start jump rope: Crunches do not burn calories so even if you do 1000 crunches you do not lose much fat. But- if you run, or jump then you burn 200- 300 calories in 20 minutes. You can do jumping jacks or jumping rope at home.
4. Eat breakfast for sure and eat frequent meals to teach your body to stop storing fat.

Life in America and so many things to remember

        Published May 4, 2013

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  Do you ever wonder in the middle of your work whether your passport, visa, green card, car tag & driver's license might be close to the due date?

We have so many things to do and so many deadlines to meet. On top of this, we being immigrants, have to stay in status. We require various permits to live in the US, work, and travel. Too many to remember. Sometimes this remembering job is stressful? Here are some simple ideas:

 1. Better set reminders for all these important permits and documents. Use your yahoo or g mail calendar to set reminders for yourself. Here are the links to videos to learn to set reminders.
How to set reminders in yahoo mail
How to set reminders in g mail
Time runs out, it will not stop or come back for you 
iPhone\ iPad Siri will do whatever you ask

2. If you have an iPhone then ask Siri to remind you when they are due.
iPhone\ iPad Siri will do whatever you ask

3. Take a picture of only the expiry date part of your passport using a phone or camera. It is faster but not prompting enough to wake you up on time.